With the holidays approaching everyone can feel a bit overwhelmed at times. But when you have a loved one battling mesothelioma it can be a particularly challenging time of year. The MesoRC will be putting out a series of tips for those suffering or have a loved one suffering from mesothelioma to help during the busy holiday season.

Today’s tip is- Revisit Plans and Expectations

Unmet expectations are a common cause of holiday stress and sadness. If someone you care for has been afflicted with mesothelioma then the idyllic holiday of your childhood memories has little to do with today's reality. Perhaps in years past you shopped until you dropped or hosted the most festive party of the season, but things are different now. If your loved one is living with mesothelioma make up your mind to scale back—the world won't end if you don't find time to bake everyone's favorite holiday cookies.

Rather than assuming what your loved one with mesothelioma wants, find out what's really important to her this holiday season, and share what's important to you. Then, plan your holiday accordingly. Make deliberate decisions about how you want to spend your time, if and when you want to entertain, and which social invitations you will (and won't) accept. Instead of trying to do it all, devote your time and energy to the things that really matter.

If you would like to read a full list of holiday tips, click here.